It Always Amazed Me

Remember walking on a street and watching a "such normal looking" couple pass you ....Where sometimes you feel....man! What makes them stay together?

Sometimes the girl is too beautiful,smart, attractive (choose the 1 you want) and with a guy who is a normal ,average looking, or the other way round when the girls drool over the guy who is with such a normal looking girl.....

All of them just gaze in awe at what makes them stay together....

In our fast pace lives, meeting someone so special is a quest for some, for some of us its a special thing which we just wait for to happen. some of us even go out there and take chances of kissing a lot of frogs/ female frogs to reach that prince/princess. no matter what you do...What you believe in , but am sure when we look at a happy couple walk past us, all that comes to mind is how!!!!

No matter how you think about it, and how you feel about having someone in your life....more so even if you don't feel like having someone in you life....still somewhere that WHY and HOW stands up when we see two normal,average looking people in love (supposedly). 

What do you think you need ? Actually let me rephrase, what do you think you need more?

This love business is far too complicated for us humans i guess. We have a society to hinder our thoughts. in animals its simpler. You have a male and a female. a male can like a female but doesn't have to worry about commitment! They can just stick around for as long as they want to. Then when they are done with the attraction, infatuation n whatnot(sometimes i feel we humans complicate things for the heck of it) can just go around and start a new family. 

Those who stick in such mess of relations are love i guess.

 Love is about freedom.

 Freedom of being happy. 

Wherever this happiness takes you.

I guess people (i mean the old ones) who say that love is not meant to be for every one is actually right and i guess people realized it in the starting of the civilization. That's why they invented the marriage business...little did they know they were adding complexions the matter altogether. They might have realized that man is never content. Wants more from life at every level and form. As a child, mothers attention, nutrition, love, care isn't ever enough.

It can never be enough for a person i guess. So when we say people are in love, how come they are content? If they are,  and if they are not content then what makes them stick around?

From what i could gather from talking to people who are in love( at least according to them) is that its not the way the person looks that matters to stick around a person. What matters is that how they make you feel about yourself. How do u make them feel about them....If that's something that can be peculiar, then i guess there is no reason why someone wont like to be with someone even if they have to do the impossible.

Man is a fool....Always has been. 

Fool to look for happiness when he knows that its not permanent. Fool to think of finding someone exact same way he dreams someone to be. 

To think he can find happiness in the rules of the hypocrites regulations and rules of the society.....

I guess our slow changing society (sometimes i feel like if it is ever moving in anyway.....) needs to make some freedom for a individual ...and sooner or later things will have to move

And  i m a optimistic for believing that..................

Life..Times and More

The curious case of Benjamin Buttons.


I am a regular movie buff so to say. I have just realized this utmost interest and the hunger for more from films that i have been watching from some time. My family at times nags me for sitting on my PC for too long, as for the records i already wear specs. They worry am gonna shift to bottle bottoms if i work on the same pace.

The idea of the movie mentioned here created my interest to see how well the director can depict the complex nature of the character, who is growing younger with time. We all are used to seeing our actors age in the movie but this was the other way round. Interesting i thought. I guess all the mentions in Oscars and the talk about the movie are genuine. they say its THE movie.

I recently had a conversation with a friend and topic came to movies. He mentioned this one is a must watch, tells you a lot about life.

Well when i think about it, first of all Brad Pitt isn't just a glamorous red carpet eye candy. The ACTOR....is the ONE i guess who could do this role. I dont even think i would like to see someone else playing Benjamin.

If you are expecting a review on this movie...I guess you try some other blog and you  might not sleep today if you start reading them...They are sooo many.

What i have here are the moments, that as a person I could live with the movie.
It takes your breath away at times. while half way through, I felt like running to my loved ones and hugging them tight. Wanted so bad to call up friends and say i love them.

The moments in ones life when we grow? I guess .....The moments you dream about having as part of your life..The moments of having someone who cares, a mother when you don't have one, a Friend when you  are too old , a child, a partner....this story says A lot.

I guess life isn't what we all think it is. We are living it everyday, making it pass away so easily when we should actually be doing so much in the time we have. You never know whats tomorrow. I dont know about others but as me, as i see it, sometimes just take things as usual....i guess that's not a way to live. Living isn't about just letting dates and years pass. Its about doing so much in them.....that when you get old and just before you die.....you say....what an amazing life this was.